A Perfect Person....

A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration.
All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony.
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The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black suit.
Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
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A few months later, the wife comes to the husband with a proposal:
“I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage.” she offered. “Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together.”
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The husband agreed, so each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them
about the other.
They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.
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The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.
“I’ll start,” offered the wife. She took out her list.
It had many items on it enough to fill 3 pages, in fact.
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As she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband’s eyes. “What’s wrong?” she asked.
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“Nothing” the husband replied, “keep reading your lists.”
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband.
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She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over top of it.
“Now, you read your list and then we’ll talk about the things on both of our lists.”
She said happily.
Quietly the husband stated, “I don’t have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don’t want you to change anything for me. You are
lovely and wonderful and I wouldn’t want to try and change anything about you.”
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The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.
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Always Remember: Nobody’s PERFECT but we can find PERFECTNESS in them to change the way we see them.

11 things mentally strong people do

1. They stay happy. Happiness is a decision. Don't waste energy on the things you can't control.
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2. They move on. Don't waste time feeling sorry for yourself. Forgiveness is key. Invest your energy in the present and preparing for the future.
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3. They keep control. Don't give any other person the control of your life. Control your own emotions.
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4. They embrace change. Change brings growth and allows you to move forward in life. Change is not something to be scared of.
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5. They accept responsibility.We all make mistakes, no one is perfect. Accept responsibility for your actions, learn and move forward.
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6. They celebrate others success. The success of others will not hold you back, only a negative attitude to their success will do that.
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7. They are willing to fail. Turn the times you fail in to lessons to help you grow. The only time you can completely fail is when you don't try.
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8. They don't believe the world owes them something.
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9. They have patience. They don't always expect immediate results.
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10. They use their thoughts productively. Negative thoughts are replaced with productive thoughts. What fills your mind, controls your life.
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11.They share. They don't have scarcity mentality. Life is about contribution. True knowledge is the best gift anyone can give. Always share knowledge.

15 things a girl wants from her guy but won't ask for

1. "Good morning beautiful" and "Good night baby "texts..
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2. Pictures taken together..
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3. Surprises (Visiting and bringing her favorite food.
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4. Taking her to meet his family n friends..
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5. His sweaters or jackets with his scent all over it.
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6. Really long hugs.. ({})
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7. Slow dances..

8. Sincere compliments..
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9. Singing her favorite songs even if it's out of tune..
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10. A cute teddy bear to hug when he's not around..
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11. Real, deep conversations..

12. Nonsense but funny conversations too..

13. His gentle-manliness..
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14. Comfort and patience when she's in tears..
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15. Telling her how much he luvs her...
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AGREE GIRLS ??

You become what you do every day

¤ For example:
• You smoke everyday, and you become a smoker.

• You drink everyday, and you become an alcoholic.

• You overeat everyday, and you become obese.

• You neglect your health every day, and you become sick.

• You neglect your relationship every day, and it turns sour.

• You spend beyond your limits every day, and you become poor.

• You practice being unhappy every day, and you become depressed.

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Likewise:

• You exercise everyday, and you become fit.

• You sing everyday, and you become a singer.

• You run every day, and you become a runner.

• You write everyday, and you become a writer.

• You eat moderately every day, and you maintain healthy weight.

• You think business every day, and you become a businessman.

• You work diligently every day, and become successful in your career.

• You save and make your money grow every day, and you become wealthy.

• You read a little every day, and you become knowledgeable on that subject.

• You spend quality time in your relationship every day, and develop healthy relationships.

• You practice being happy every day, and you become a happy person.

• You strive for spiritual growth every day, and you grow spiritually.
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Wherever you are in life, it is likely you did not get there in an instant.
Everything that is part of your life became so because you have been meditating upon it consistently. People who are very good at what they do find a way to consistently do the things they are passionate about without taking long absences from it. Thus, if there is something that does not serve you that you wish to eliminate from your life, simply find a way to do it infrequently until you completely stop doing it. Conversely, if there is something you want to develop within yourself, find a way to do it every day, and one day it will become a natural part of you.
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The day to take charge and create the life you want is thus today!